Showing posts with label Touch is important.. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Touch is important.. Show all posts

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Is touch important to you?

How important is touch to you? I am hoping your response is that touch is important but with more of us working in technology or alone in our home offices, I am afraid we have lost the sense that touch IS important. This saddens me as we all need touch. There are many studies confirming the positive effects of touch and here’s one.
Librarians were instructed alternately to touch and not touch the hands of students as they handed back their library cards. Then the students were interviewed. Those who had been touched reported far greater positive feelings about themselves, the library, and the librarians than those who had not been touched. This occurred even though the touch was fleeting and the students didn't even remember it!

If you do work alone, ask yourself how often you come into contact with other human beings? What is the typical relationship you have with that other human being? Is it a business or intimate relationship? If it's a business relationship when did you last give someone a hug?

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas morning.

I wish you a wonderful warm day filled with love and happiness. It's a time to connect to loved ones and family. To connect we can talk, write or touch each other. Touch is so fundamentally vital to life and often overlooked especially today as we use computers so much.
Ask yourself how you're doing with getting and giving touch. Consider deliberately touching others more often and see how it feels. When sitting and talking, reach out occasionally to lightly touch the other person's forearm, hand or shoulder. When a friend is tired, offer a shoulder or neck rub. Remember that when we touch, we get the benefit as well. I'll discuss this further tomorrow.